Mar 11 2009
Make Decisions
Has your woman been ordering you around? Have you been obeying all her decisions? If the answers are yes, then you’ve been WHIPPED and she does not see much of an alpha male within you. This is not good.
You need to be more decisive. You need to take control. You need to be a man. This does not mean you should be bossy, manipulative, or forceful. If you do, she will definitely not find this at all attractive. Instead you need to be making decisions (not all, just enough to show her that you can take control and that you are no push over) in a cool, charming, manly fashion. In a way that will build more attraction. Tell her she looks fabulous in that dress instead of having a weak opinion (i.e. shrugging, “whatever,” “its fine”), tell her she is having dinner with you tonight.
Just be smart about this. DO NOT portray yourself as bossy or forceful. You want to charm her, not creep/scare/annoy her away. The most attractive thing you can do is to be a man. Being a man means making decisions.






I’ve enjoyed reading you blog. You have a lot of good advice!
you are so right. Great advice